South Africa’s original reality TV sweethearts, Mandla Hlatshwayo and Lexi van Niekerk, have confirmed their separation after ten years together, marking the end of one of Mzansi’s most-watched love stories. The couple, who met as contestants on *Big Brother Mzansi Season 1* in 2014, announced their breakup this week amid escalating tensions and cryptic social media posts.
Their romance—which began when Mandla won the show’s R1 million prize—captivated the nation, evolving from a reality TV spark to a full-fledged family life with two children and their own spin-off series, *Mandla and Lexi*. But recent months hinted at turmoil, with Lexi posting “574 weeks. I’m done!” alongside a black screen, while Mandla’s alarming reference to the late rapper Flabba (stabbed by his partner in 2015) sent fans into a panic. He later clarified the breakup was genuine, not a stunt.
The rift turned public during a heated Instagram Live, where Lexi accused Mandla of financial neglect toward their family—a stark contrast to their once-unbreakable image. While the split devastates fans who grew up with their love story, both emphasize prioritizing co-parenting. Their journey serves as a poignant reminder: even fairy-tale romances face real-world storms.
As the curtain falls on this chapter, South Africa mourns the loss of a relationship that once symbolized reality TV magic—proving that no bond, no matter how public, is immune to life’s complexities.