Welcome to the Housemates edition.
Confront your issues head-on
This has been the order of the day. The confrontation between the ladies after they lost the Wager Task, did not go down as well as it could have, but it happened, and they fixed their issues. There were a lot of confrontations after the Friday Games Night. The Housemates had to confront each other and their feelings. Yoli believes in addressing issues as they happen.
Mpho ,Nale and Terry are messsy 🔥🤣,they won't sleep without confrontation #BBMzansi
— Natalie 🤍🇧🇼 (@Nadlygreat) January 27, 2022
Yoli is on a confrontation tour. Now she’s fetching B.U! Get them all girl! Let’s here what this loser is gonna say. #BBMzansi pic.twitter.com/5doFApw9zc
— Homegirls and Handgrenades🌈 (@ItsLithaAfter9) January 28, 2022
Consistently work at being disciplined
Tensions have been high in the House, and the Housemates think it is due to a lack of discipline. B.U believes that he’s the most disciplined of the lot – and that puts him in a good position and absolves him from the tension.
Be yourself
This has come up a lot, and all the Housemates believe in staying true to themselves. They think it is the only way to guarantee a win. Terry feels that the people who change their personalities will fall short. It’s an interesting one because the audience seems to disagree.
I actually like a game player. You don't go into a game show to be yourself. In as much as it's a personality contest it's also a game show. Being forthcoming about is also lovely. Kudos to Themba! #BBMzansi
— 7 January. 😍🎉 (@Gorthan_Sir) January 28, 2022
"be yourself" doesn't work #BBMzansi
— Claire (@Keigh96198812) January 25, 2022
Build relationships
The Housemates believe that it’s important to build solid relationships in the House and that you need people who will have your back. Even though everyone is playing a game, genuine connections are being made. Tulz advised Nale to make sure that she has people who are on her side.
Sis Tamara and Terry – what a necessary chaotic duo 😭😭😭 the most superior friendship in the house 🤌🏾🔥😩 #BBMzansi
— Not to be perceived. (@starrgherl) January 28, 2022
Nale and Yoli friendship 🤞❤️😍😍 just hoping for Nale to open up more. But she did say she's a light spirit. #BBMzansi
— Mpume (@MpumeGumbi95) January 28, 2022
Read the room
It’s very important to be observant in the House so you can be aware of what’s going on. That informs the strategy because you’re also able to get a feel for how your Housemates feel about you. Norman prides himself in being able to read the room.
Big Brother : You don't know what happening in the other room
Themba : They also don't know what's happening in our room 😂😂#BBManzi #BBMzanzi #BBMzansi pic.twitter.com/qy8bOsUKJj— Mogau Grace Ngoasheng 💰🇿🇦 (@PlusizeGoddess) January 28, 2022
basically dont raise your voice improve your argument…"read the room!!" Nale😘🙌 #BBMzansi
— vivian makhetla (@craze_gemini) January 25, 2022
Set Boundaries
You can’t control how others feel about you, but you can control how you react to those feelings and the situations you find yourself. One of the best examples of this that we’ve seen was the conversation between Nale and Tulz; they’ve set the boundaries and have agreed to be good friends.