Lady Zamar has spoken out for the first time about the ordeal she suffered in a relationship about being abused verbally, once sexually, used, lied to and cheated on.
The star took it on Twitter when she disclose some of the files and confirm that Sjava is a liar and a cheater: “You guys are exhausting man.. I’ve been saying… Your precious Zulu man is a liar and a cheater.. Cheers to every person that didn’t believe me when I told them that that niggas married.. coz in your face.. mxm y’all are exhausting.. now y’all wanna drag me coz I didn’t know?”
Lady Zamar is currently trending on social media for unwittingly becoming Sjava’s side chick. This came after one Twitter user posted a picture of two women, titled “Sjava’s wife with his mom” When another user tagged Lady Zamar asking her to clarify.
Lady Zamar has cleared the air on her relationship with musician Sjava, telling fans the pair don’t talk.
After several denials, Sjava and Lady Zamar surprised many in April when they confirmed their relationship, but said they split the month before.
Lady Zamar was asked in a Twitter Q&A last night how she had managed to keep her relationship secret. She brought the spice by saying “I was abused verbally, once sexually, used, lied to and cheated on”.
You guys are exhausting man.. I’ve been saying… Your precious Zulu man is a liar and a cheater.. Cheers to every person that didn’t believe me when I told them that that niggas married.. coz in your face.. mxm y’all are exhausting.. now y’all wanna drag me coz I didn’t know?
— MONARCH💞🦋 (@Lady_Zamar) October 29, 2019
I was abused ( verbally and once sexually) and used.. I was lied to and cheated on..
Did I know.. No
Did people tell me who knew?.. yes some.. got inboxes and calls ..
Did I ask? Yes
Did people I knew know what kind of man he is? Yes
Did they protect him? His friends? Yes— MONARCH💞🦋 (@Lady_Zamar) October 29, 2019
Spent a whole two years fighting within myself.. asking myself how does it happen to me? Me? Yami.. a whole Lady Zamar? How do you become a victim when all you’ve ever wanted was love? How do you survive? How do you piece your life together again.. How do you?
— MONARCH💞🦋 (@Lady_Zamar) October 29, 2019
Surprising that I was invited to perform at this event on Sunday where the wife was coming.. The disrespect😰
— MONARCH💞🦋 (@Lady_Zamar) October 29, 2019
I’m only responding coz I’m exhausted.. I’ve moved on Loooong ago and yerrr I’m still dragged into that messy mans life. What must I do to get you guys to stop with the tags and mentions? … If I was a normal girl who no one knew I’d be left alone but coz I’m in the public?
— MONARCH💞🦋 (@Lady_Zamar) October 29, 2019
Everyone says keep quite, being is quiet is classy, saying nothing is cool.. you know Twitter is a negative place.. that’s the advise I’m getting.. People focus on the music, forget about him, but how can I when y’all make it so hard.. you think I write about him..
— MONARCH💞🦋 (@Lady_Zamar) October 29, 2019
Was I loved? No
Was I hurt ..? Yes
Is it true? Yes
You’re looking for attention? No
Did you love him? I thought I did
Where you afraid of him? Yes
You’re not over him? I wasn’t into him to begin with
Did you think you loved him? Yes
Where you abused? Yes— MONARCH💞🦋 (@Lady_Zamar) October 29, 2019
Why now? I said I was told to keep my truth until the time was right..
So why didn’t you? Coz my gosh I’m tired of y’all talking about me
Maybe you bitter.. I guess that would be better..She’s not over him.. I was never in it to begin with.
Why didn’t you say anything?— MONARCH💞🦋 (@Lady_Zamar) October 29, 2019
Who believes the woman who was abused, hurt, threatened by their favorite person?
— MONARCH💞🦋 (@Lady_Zamar) October 29, 2019
So did you ask him about his wife? Nigga swears up and down he is not married..
So any more questions? I’ll answer.. I wish this was for attention.. I wish it was for float.. I wish it was for anything but the truth .. I’m just tired yo
— MONARCH💞🦋 (@Lady_Zamar) October 29, 2019
She continued saying: “Started therapy for about 8 months coz I thought I was going crazy, started having nightmares and nervous breakdowns.. it was hell.. my heart would especially break every time some I loved, respected, admired would tell me how how amazing he is.. I was devastated.”